Tuesday, October 10, 2017

Don't Call Me Your "Sister" If I'm Really Not Your Sister! - Chapter 70

WOW!  So much has happened since I've last posted here.  I will mention everything I've gone through in a later post.

The big news is that I've written another book!  This time, as a solo project.  I'm pretty proud of this book because of the journey I've endured writing it.  The book is called Paradise in Singleness: Is It Possible?  The book was released in August 2017 and the premise of the book is a refreshing perspective on how we should view being single and how to take the necessary steps towards being made whole to obtain and nurture every relationship.  My book is available on Amazon: http://bit.ly/pisbook2.

I am a compassionate loving person and I am extremely loyal - to a fault.  If I say that I'm your friend, then I'm your friend.  If I say that I'm your sister, then I am your sister.  I do understand that I'm not everyone's "cup of tea" because many people, women, in particular, do not understand where I'm coming from.  Then again, I guess that I expect too much from women and expect to receive the same love and support as I give them.  Every time I invest in a friendship with women, most of the time, it doesn't work out.  Why can't we as women be truly happy and supportive of one another?  I know it is very few and far between, but is it really possible?

With the exception of my best friend (thank God at least I have one), I'm sadly believing that there's no such thing as a true "sisterhood!"  I guess I'll just have to get used to that!

Until next time....


Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Tasty Tuesdays - Chapter 69


Get your mocktails and/or Fimosas (Orange Juice & Sparkling Cider) ready 'cuz it's gonna get real JUICY! Join us every Tuesday night to discuss real topics and issues for ALL Christian singles! WARNING: This call is NOT for the faint of heart or for the "Virgin Ears!" We keep it all the way REAL & all the way JESUS!



Monday, January 9, 2017

I Hate That I'm Lonely - Chapter 68

I Hate That I'm Lonely

I hate that I'm lonely.
I hate that I come home to an empty house every night
No one asking me "How was your day?"
No one holding me tight with all of his might 
Nor kiss me on the forehead to make the bad day go away.

I hate that I'm lonely.
I hate that my bestie is not nearby
Nor don't have a friend I can trust due to them possibly leaving me 
Showing my positive attitude but inside I cry
Staying strong and loving as I can be.

I hate that I'm lonely.
Don't get me wrong!
I'm not about to jump off a cliff 
Or enter into the suicide zone
God is always there to give me a lift
So I maybe lonely, but I'm not alone!

Still, I hate that I'm lonely...

(c) 2017 - Tonja E. Withers

Sunday, January 1, 2017

2017 - The Year of Release! - Chapter 67

Day One of 2017 - I have been interviewed for an online Christian magazine!  Check it out (pages 15 & 17-18)!  http://www.victorymagazine.online/january-2017/